2 weeks has passed and this is my inaugural post for the year. *whoa*
our wedding is fast approaching and we are behind on our prep, but we will get there. he reminds me that i must not panic. and he’s convinced that i am unable to relax (in general).. i dunno – i actually thought i’m slack most times! *scratch head* anyways.
and so! the post is titled as such because yesterday was a milestone (from my perspective, at least) in our relationship. we scheduled our pre-wedding photo shoot with jeremy for yesterday. my morning started reaaaally early at 0630am with the make-up process. before long, adr arrived with all the barang barang and looking real suave in his pink shirt, grey vest and pants ensemble. once we were both done with our faces and hair, i got changed (and taped!). that was when it all clicked and the magic kicked in.. heeee. the gown rendered me quite useless, so i wasn’t really able to do a lot of stuff. i needed and got assistance for the littlest things – hehh! my folks were actually so excited, even though it was me going for the shoot. hahaha.. dad took several pictures of me/us, and mom walked us down, helping to carry some stuff too.
on our drive there, adr initiated to pray for us, and i’m mighty glad he did! (: other than asking for good weather, skill for our photographer and favour with him, he was very sweet to ask God to let me feel like the bride that i am about to be. i thought it was just cute that he said that in his prayer, and i was tickled at that moment.. but on hindsight, i did feel very pampered the entire day by him. it wasn’t just for half a day or a few hours in the morning when he was still fresh and positive. it was for the whole time.. even till today.
it was wonderful that God held back the rain until we were done with our outdoor portions. in fact, we had perfect weather right from the morning. we had nice, soft rays from the sun and cool, gentle breeze to boot when we were at cantebury road. (: it all worked together perfectly to give us many beautiful moments and shots.. jeremy seemed excited much every now and then, so i think it makes all the mozzie bites worth the while.. :P between the 2 of us, we shared so many funny moments. because of the shoot, we probably shared the most number of kisses (and intimate moments) in a day, like ever ever! it’s a good thing that we’re comfortable enough in front of the lens to be doing whatever we were directed to do. for posterity sake, what was also funny was that at one point, i even had a bee/wasp trapped in my gown, apart from the little grasshoppers and love grass + random twig..
anyway, 2 hours and many shots later, we left for the esplanade library. the air-con offered great respite, and it was as well as a studio shot of sorts. after awhile, i started shivering because it got really cold! he ‘chided’ me for being hiaohiao and getting a bareback gown. *bleah* after we were done with the piano, we moved on to the café area and took some lounge-y shots. adr did some solo shots which looked really good. (: it was at this point that i was real glad for how our photographer made everything work even with the simplest and ordinary looking backdrops.
as we wrapped up the white gown portion, i needed a place to change. they were really sweet to offer the staff toilet for us to change comfortably and properly. for a location that we never would have imagined using, it was much more than we could have asked for. we headed to the car after we were done and here, jeremy had a moment of inspiration again. we actually made use of the basement carpark for a couple more shots. hehh! once we were done, we went off to the peranakan shop houses at petain/sturdee rd. it was an awesome location too and we nailed it quite quickly.
by this time, i think we started to feel tired – both us and the photographer. we headed back to the esplanade for our final location, my humble house. although it was troublesome to run to and fro, i very quickly appreciated the quietness and how we had access to the entire restaurant with no restrictions. christine even showed us such hospitality that we could not complain, not the least bit. she offered us water when she didn’t have to. and our crazy request to use the kitchen auto door for silhouette was acceded to with no resistance at all. lovely, lovely place. (: as long as we don’t do banquets like caleb/ivy did, we’ll not think any less of them/the place. hehh!
we took many variations of shots in this place, which will hold a lot of meaning for us. (: we finally wrapped up after a shot that spans the entire restaurant. i was pretty much drained.. but managed to stick through till then. we thanked christine and left. after all of that, i was feeling so hungry i could eat a cow! he suggested that we go home and eat his kimchi instant noodles concoction, and i gamely agreed. as we left the car park, it began to pour heavily. super duper heavy duty kinda thunderstorm. WOW or what..??
as we reached his block, it was still raining cats and dogs. he stopped me at the shelter, so that i wouldn’t wet the gown. yet, i dropped the train of my gown as i got out!! ): sighh. but well. we reached home and the kids were there. asher was hilarious — he was literally curious but scared of me. he would run over to see, and then run away thinking i’m some stranger. finally, he realised i was someone he knew. haha.. anaiah wouldn’t stop playing with the flowers in my hair, she was so curious. cute. adr lent me something to change out of, and he went to cook the noodles. *yay to more pampering* i was so glad to eat when the food was ready.. nomsters. and awhile later, i was so tired i couldn’t keep my eyes open. so i went to snooooooze. he left me to snooze for a really long while! i had thought he’d wake me up.. when i woke, he was still so positive and cheery that it surprised me mildly. he wasn’t the least bit grouchy even though i’m sure he was super duper tired (since he didn’t rest like i did). he proceeded to send me home and still speak with me nicely, kiss me goodnight. (:
come to think of it, it’s really amazing how each place and every element to the shoot worked out. i’m thankful how the photographer was so generous, accommodating and more excited than us at times. i’m glad God held back the rain, and gave us beautiful weather with a cool breeze.. God also held back my bio-cycles (!!).. which hit me hard today. God also helped change adr’s mind about photo shoots, which he declared as something he does not enjoy at all. he went into this only because of me, which made me feel really bad — especially after our informal one with A and C. but this time round, i think adr enjoyed himself and he said he looks forward to seeing the shots! so yeahh.
God is soooo good.